Christmas Can Be Difficult for Children and Families with Neurodivergence

Dec 17, 2024Autism, Christmas, Neurodivergence, Recommendations0 comments

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The Christmas holidays are often associated with joy, excitement, and celebration. However, for children and families with neurodivergence, it can also be a particularly challenging time of year. At CAYP Psychology, we understand the unique needs of neurodivergent children and the importance of supporting their mental health and well-being during this period. Children with neurodivergent profiles such as autism, ADHD, and sensory processing differences may struggle with the heightened sensory experiences, changes to routine, and social expectations that come with the holiday season. With the right support, these challenges can be mitigated, allowing neurodivergent children and their families to enjoy the Christmas holidays more comfortably.

Why the Festive Season Can Be Overwhelming
1. S
ensory Overload: During the Christmas holiday, the environment changes dramatically. There are bright lights, loud music, bustling crowds, and new decorations. For neurodivergent children who experience heightened sensitivity to sensory stimuli, these changes can be overwhelming and may lead to sensory overload, meltdowns, or anxiety.
2. Changes to Routine: Many neurodivergent children thrive on predictable routines. The Christmas holidays often disrupts these routines with school holidays, visits to relatives, parties, and unpredictable changes to daily structure. These disruptions can cause anxiety, confusion, and distress.
3. Social Expectations: The Christmas holidays comes with an increase in social gatherings, family reunions, and expectations to interact with people who may not be familiar. This can be particularly stressful for children who struggle with social communication or find large groups overwhelming. Social norms like hugging relatives or joining in party games can create pressure and discomfort.
4. Emotional Regulation: Excitement, anticipation, and unpredictability are hallmarks of the holidays. For children who struggle with emotional regulation, managing these intense emotions can be difficult and may lead to emotional outbursts, frustration, or withdrawal.
5. Food Challenges: Festive meals often include new foods, unusual textures, and strong smells. For children with sensory sensitivities or rigid food preferences, mealtimes during the holidays can become a source of stress rather than enjoyment.

Strategies to Support Neurodivergent Children During the Festive Season
At CAYP Psychology, we recommend practical, specific strategies tailored to Christmas and New Year’s celebrations to help neurodivergent children navigate this time more comfortably.

  1. Prepare for Gatherings with Visual Schedules:
    • Something to try: Create a visual schedule for Christmas Day, including a timeline of when presents will be opened, when meals are served, and when quiet breaks can happen.
    • Use pictures of relatives, places, or activities so your child knows who they will see and what to expect. Practice going through the schedule in advance.
  1. Designate a Quiet Zone at Gatherings:
    • Something to try: At a family Christmas dinner, set up a “quiet corner” with a favourite blanket, noise-cancelling headphones, and a few comforting toys or books. Let your child know they can retreat there any time they feel overwhelmed.
    • If visiting someone’s home, ask in advance if there is a quiet room your child can use.
  1. Introduce New Decorations Gradually:
    • Something to try: Instead of decorating the entire house at once, introduce one decoration each day. Allow your child to participate in the process if they feel comfortable.
    • Avoid flashing lights or decorations with loud sounds if your child is sensitive to these stimuli.
  1. Provide Sensory-Friendly Christmas Activities:
    • Something to try: Instead of loud parties or bustling events, try sensory-friendly alternatives like:
      • Making homemade Christmas crafts.
      • Baking cookies in a calm, quiet environment.
      • Watching a favourite holiday film with the lights dimmed and sound at a comfortable level.
  1. Prepare for Changes in Routine During New Year’s Eve:
    • Something to try: If your child struggles with staying up late or loud celebrations, plan a “mini New Year’s” earlier in the day. Count down to 6 PM or 8 PM and celebrate with a quiet activity like a board game or reading time.
    • Explain any changes in bedtime routines well in advance and have comfort items ready.
  1. Plan for Social Interactions with Role-Playing:
    • Something to try: Before visiting relatives, role-play common social scenarios like saying “Merry Christmas” or “Happy New Year” and practice acceptable alternatives to physical contact (e.g., waving instead of hugging).
    • Create a script for conversations or a “safe phrase” your child can use if they need a break, such as, “I need some quiet time now.”
  1. Simplify Festive Mealtimes:
    • Something to try: If Christmas dinner is overwhelming, pack a “safe meal” with foods your child is comfortable eating. This ensures they have something familiar to eat without pressure.
    • Allow your child to eat in a quieter space if the dining area is too noisy or crowded.
  1. Use Noise Reduction Strategies for Fireworks:
    • Something to try: For New Year’s fireworks, try using noise-cancelling headphones or playing calming music through headphones. Watch the fireworks from a distance or on TV to reduce sensory impact.
    • Prepare your child by explaining what fireworks are, what they sound like, and when they will occur.

Final Thoughts
At CAYP Psychology, we know that the festive season can be a time of connection, warmth, and joy, but it’s important to recognise and respect the unique needs of neurodivergent children. By incorporating specific, practical strategies, planning, and being flexible with expectations, families can create a holiday experience that is supportive and inclusive.

Our team is dedicated to supporting children, young people, and families through every season of the year. If you’d like more information, resources, or personalised support, please don’t hesitate to contact us. We are here to help.

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